In News by Oluwaseun Samuel on the 14th, July, 2020

I Needed My Spouse To Be My Servant After Marriage ceremony

I Wanted My Wife To Be My Servant After Wedding


Damilola Praiseworth

Fashionable Nigerian singer, Damilola Praiseworth has revealed how he deliberate to make his spouse his servant after their marriage ceremony, simply because he had served her throughout courtship.

In his put up, he famous passage from the Bible modified his thought and he realized he needed to be servant-leader as the person of the home so life might run easily for them each.

He Wrote:

“After I was nonetheless a boyfriend, I didn’t thoughts doing cooking and home chores to impress my spouse when she visited. In any case she was going to pay again in full once we get married by serving me completely as a result of I would be the MAN OF THE HOUSE.

“Quietly I had constructed this concept in my head and even imagined eventualities of how she would serve me. I had additionally imagined eventualities of how I might react if she didn’t do issues a sure means. I had constructed this enormous expectation in my thoughts of how I might have to be handled as a husband.

“In all these fantasies I hardly ever pictured myself serving as I had executed to impress her. I felt I might have to be rewarded for all the nice I had invested within the relationship. Marriage can be my harvest and I might solely serve her as a reward for serving me. It was all about me.

“Few months earlier than we obtained married I got here throughout a Bible verse, Luke 12:37 that said “… I inform you the reality, he himself (Jesus) will seat them, placed on an apron, and serve them as they sit and eat!” As easy is it sounds, it blew my thoughts and left me in tears.

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“I realised that even Christ, served us utterly and at his coming, he’ll placed on an apron, get his fingers soiled and serve us. If I’m to like this girl as Christ cherished the church, I couldn’t do something lower than to serve her and our house completely with out expectations.

“I obtained into marriage with a need to serve my spouse utterly with out expectations. To utterly give my all and assist her in cooking and chores as she all the time knew me to do as a boyfriend. I’ve gladly executed so ever since and nonetheless doing that.

“Curiously, my service to her has made her to deal with me proper persistently much more than the expectations I had constructed up in my head. It’s as if every time I serve her, she naturally responds by attempting to outdo my service. It’s like a wholesome contest of service to one another.

“We’re rising to change into two individuals used to giving our 100% to one another and never assembly one another midway. When one thing comes up that must be executed, it’s executed naturally as a result of we’re each dedicated to serving one another utterly

“I’ve come to understand that there’s such a factor because the MAN OF THE HOUSE, nevertheless it’s not the person who lords over his spouse or household like a dictator.

“A MAN OF THE HOUSE is the person who’s dedicated to serving his house utterly. He’s a Servant-Chief”.

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