In News by Oluwaseun Samuel on the 09th, August, 2020

My Daughter’s Husband Visited Us Repeatedly Earlier than Marriage But Deserted Her

My Daughter's Husband Visited Us Repeatedly Before Marriage Yet Abandoned Her

Saudatu Abdulazeez

Mrs Saudatu Abdulazeez is the mom of Risikat, the 30-year-old lady who was allegedly deserted by her husband for having youngsters with blue eyes. She tells TUNDE OYEKOLA she was shocked Abdulwasiu, the husband of her daughter, despatched her daughter out of her matrimonial residence

What is your title and your relationship with Risikat?

I’m Mrs Saudatu Abdulazeez. I’m the mom of Risikat; she is my first daughter.

How previous is she?

She is about 30 years previous.

She stated she was born with blue eyes. Is her situation hereditary?

No, it’s not hereditary. I don’t have it and her father doesn’t have it. However our daughter, Risikat, and her youngsters have it.

Have been you embarrassed since you had a blue-eyed child?

When she was born, we found that she had blue eyes. We had been shocked as a result of there was no person that had such eyes in our household. The daddy doesn’t have them and I don’t have them. After making enquiries from the folks round us, we had been advised that it was not a illness and we turned much less frightened as a result of it didn’t have an effect on her imaginative and prescient. However when she was at college, she complained that her mates had been making jest of her. We took her to the final hospital (College of Ilorin Educating Hospital) at Surulere, Ilorin for therapy. Docs advised us to not fear because the eyes had been regular.

Why couldn’t your daughter take West African Examination Council and Nationwide Examination Council examinations?

We had no cash to pay throughout the time of the registration for the examinations. So, she didn’t pay for the two examinations. We later despatched her to study the sale of drugs and we established a medication store for her; she operated the enterprise earlier than she bought married. She continued to function the store after she bought married to her husband. Nonetheless, each husband and spouse didn’t handle the enterprise properly they usually ruined it.

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When the husband despatched your daughter out, what did you do?

When she got here and advised us that her husband advised her to return to her dad and mom’ home, we had been shocked that he may behave that approach as a result of he struggled so much earlier than he married her. He made a number of visits to our home earlier than she agreed to marry him, though, after they bought married, Abdulwasiu didn’t carry out his duties properly. He was not feeding his household. Though he’s a vulcaniser, he didn’t feed our daughter. I’m the one who would purchase foodstuffs and take them to their residence. My husband, who’s her father, would ship cash to them. We did that for a few years. Whilst a results of not performing his duties, Risikat didn’t wish to produce other youngsters for him after Kaosara, however I begged her to stick with him as a result of I didn’t need her to maneuver from one man to a different since I didn’t do it. I’ve stayed in a single place along with her father since we bought married. So, I appealed to her and he or she bought pregnant and had the twins.

Has the household of Risikat’s husband come for reconciliation?

No, they haven’t come. They didn’t trouble to come back as a result of they had been behind the separation. They had been the ones that complained that they didn’t just like the blue eyes of the kids that my daughter had for his or her son and had been those instigating their son to marry one other lady who would give their son youngsters with regular eyes and he acceded to their recommendation. He did what he was taught. I, nonetheless, regarded him as somebody who has nothing to do as a result of one in every of the twins, Taiwo, who died, had regular eyes. Of the twins, solely the feminine has blue eyes. However I do know that God has one thing vital to do within the lifetime of the kids of my daughter and I pray that God’s promise will come to cross.

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If the household of the husband of your daughter decides to come back and beg you to take their spouse again, will you settle for their plea?

It’s too late. It’s over a 12 months now that my daughter has been with us they usually haven’t bothered to come back to us to ask about her and the kids. I knew that they’d not come. Even Abdulwasiu, who involves see the kids sometimes, wouldn’t enter our home. If they arrive now, my daughter will now not marry him.


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