In News by Oluwaseun Samuel on the 19th, July, 2020

Nigeria’s ‘Most Furry Girl’ Reveals How A Homosexual Pilot Supplied N.5 Million To ‘Have A Style’ Of Her

Nigeria's 'Most Hairy Woman' Reveals How A Gay Pilot Offered N.5 Million To 'Have A Taste' Of Her

Queen Okafor

Queen Okafor

Queen Okafor’s life story is a typical instance of how one can flip disgrace to fame. She is the acclaimed Nigeria’s ‘hairiest lady’, due to her closely bearded face, bushy chest and physique.

In lots of elements, individuals see it as an abomination for girls to have beards or hairs on their face and chests. It’s because they allude that the beards and hairs are clear indicators that the lady is extremely temperamental, depraved, and has a nasty character. Even, in some communities, bushy girls are labelled witches, as they’re mocked and handled as outcasts. Nonetheless, Queen, a local of Nnobi City, in Idemili South, Anambra State, has narrated inspiringly how one ought to be resolute and keep away from being yoked into low vanity due to one’s look.

In keeping with Queen, rising up in a society the place bushy girls with beards are tagged queer and alien, she panicked when she started to note lush black hairs springing out at uncommon elements of her physique.

And as a flowering lady, she turned depressed attempting all she may to cease the hairs to cease rising. “I used to be born and grew up like each regular little one, all by my teenage years I used to be like each common younger lady. It was after I clocked 21 that I observed that extra hairs are rising throughout my physique. I used to be very shocked and confused. And I, like different individuals, I questioned why a high-quality younger woman like me ought to endure such destiny.”, she advised Sunday Solar.

Beards of future

To instantly cease the hairs from rising, Queen began to use every kind of bizarre stuff to eradicate the beards from her face, however all to no avail. “I did so many issues to eradicate the hairs. I stored shaving and rubbing tortoise faeces on my face and physique to make the hairs cease rising. I heard individuals say that tortoise poops can cease hair development. So, I used it, however it didn’t work for me. Additionally, a pal of mine acquired me some hair eradication lotions from america. I used the lotions, but the hairs refused to wither, reasonably it stored rising all over my physique. So, to get to the roots of my situation, I went to the hospital. I went to see a health care provider that examined me and did some check. As a result of individuals speculated that it could possibly be that I had PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome), or some form of dysfunction. However the medical outcomes revealed that nothing was fallacious with me. I additionally monitored myself, and observed that nothing modified in my system, my menstrual cycle was flowing regular, and my physique was rising like each regular younger lady. I felt okay, and the physician additionally reaffirmed that I’m medically okay. Alongside the road, my mom disclosed to me that the hairs have been hereditary. She advised me that it runs of their household ancestry, so I have to have inherited my hairs from her bloodline. It was then that I discovered that the factor is simply pure and that it can’t be eliminated.”

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Queen mentioned that she confronted a number of embarrassing conditions, and ridicules that affected her self value, till she had two experiences that modified her life perpetually. “The primary expertise that I had was from my pastor. I went to hunt his counsel on my bushy state of affairs, and he determined to go on a prayer and fasting session to get divine solutions for me. And after his prayers and fasting, he summoned me and advised me that the hairs are a present from God and never a curse. My pastor advised me that it was God that determined to make me particular and excellent from different younger ladies and that I have to cease feeling unhealthy about my appears. My pastor’s recommendation lifted up my spirit, and I made a decision to be happy with my hairs. I began making individuals perceive that I’m distinctive. I turned extra proud of myself and my hairs. And cared much less about what individuals say to me about my hairs. And I advised anybody that cared to hear that they need to both, settle for me and admire the handiwork of God, or they will go, and depart me alone.

“One other incident was after I met an previous lady at Ogwasi-Uku, in Delta State the place I went for a pal’s conventional marriage. I then noticed the lady coming in the direction of me, I didn’t even see the place she emerged from. She was standing with a strolling stick and approached saying that I shouldn’t worry. She then advised me that she had a daughter that has beards like me and that it was her facial hairs that attracted the person she married. she advised me that her daughter is now staying along with her husband and youngsters in Holland. she advised me that I shouldn’t really feel unhealthy, or fear that my appears as a result of God has stored a particular man for me. The lady suggested me that I ought to ignore what individuals say as a result of their opinions about me don’t matter and that I ought to be pleased with myself. l was nonetheless listening to her when some associates referred to as my consideration, I greeted them briefly, however after I turned to proceed my dialog with the previous lady, I couldn’t see her once more. And all through my keep at Ogwasi-Uku, I by no means noticed the previous lady once more.

“It was these two incidents that made me see myself as a toddler of future. I embraced my destiny and commenced to like my look. So, now I don’t conceal anymore. In truth, I like to indicate my hairs now. It makes me really feel distinctive, and I’m pleased with myself. My hair makes me really feel engaging and attractive, “ she mentioned.

Unhappy experiences

Girls with beards and hairs on the chest face a number of societal stigma, they’re referred to as totally different names and are sometimes mocked or mobbed when they’re noticed on their means. Queen acquired sufficient dose of such therapies and was on the verge of changing into discouraged. “There was a time, I boarded a bus and was ready for it to be absolutely loaded. then a lady that wished to board the identical bus, alighted instantly when she noticed me. She rushed out of the bus as if she noticed an evil spirit, and went to enter one other bus. I felt unhealthy and actually embarrassed at how she ran out of the bus as if I used to be a leper. Then typically after I discover myself in a crowd, many individuals on seeing me would frown and transfer away from me as in the event that they don’t need my physique to the touch theirs. Even at a social gathering like after I go to a restaurant or bar, some individuals which might be seeing me for the primary time, get uncomfortable. Lots of them grow to be afraid of me after which run away from the place as in the event that they’ve seen a ghost.”

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Followers, trolls, intercourse advances

Queen disclosed that she is now unruffled every time she will get harassed by individuals or on-line trolls. The 32-year-old, actress, entrepreneur and social media character, mentioned that she is simply open to the optimistic consideration she will get from her rising fan base, and that she can also be fast to shut-out the destructive vibes from her haters. “The reality is that I get extra love from people who say they like my hairs than those who hate and mock me. On social media, I’ve nearly 30, 000 followers on Fb, and hundreds of followers on each Instagram and Twitter. I dwell a quite simple life, and I attempt my greatest to understand my followers. But when any troll says something unhealthy to me about how I look, I merely block that individual and limit their entry to all of my platforms. My on-line social media platforms are just for those who love and admire me. Additionally after I stroll on the street individuals discover me and get amazed.  Most occasions, a number of them, particularly males flock to take footage with me. I even observed some males discover the hair engaging. My fiancé adores my beards and finds it irresistible too.

“However as individuals troop to see me, I discover that a few of them imply nicely, and have good intentions, whereas some simply need to have me for one thing else. Some males would come providing me cash to go stark bare, whereas some supply to get me pregnant and provides delivery to their child, for them to know if my form of individual can have a toddler. However I don’t give in to such calls for as a result of it isn’t what I would like for myself.

“Three years in the past, I used to be at an occasion at Sheraton Lodge, at Maryland Ikeja, when one man launched himself as a pilot and advised me that he’s homosexual. He supplied me N500, 000 to have anal intercourse and wished to have a style of a really bushy lady. However I refused as a result of it’s not what I would like. My appears appeal to loads of consideration, however I imagine that I’ve the appropriate to make my selections and never what individuals supply to me. That I’ve hairs throughout my physique doesn’t imply that I’ve low vanity. I’m a disciplined individual, and I do know what I would like.

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“Additionally right here the place I’m primarily based in Abuja, I get loads of love advances from lesbians. A few of them come saying they need to be my shut pal. So, after I settle for them as my associates, I discover out that they’re really lesbians attempting to lure me to intercourse. However I get pleasure from my man extra, and I don’t have any curiosity in lesbianism or having any affairs with lesbians. I don’t settle for that form of factor, it is just what I would like, that I’m going for.”

Sustaining my beards

“My facial hairs can develop lengthy and full like that of the late Osama bin Ladin’s beards. So, I do regular issues to keep up my hairs, to maintain it neat. I’ve my vital shaving kits like scissors, and I additionally deal with them on the barber’s store in order that it doesn’t look tattered and bushy. It doesn’t stress me in any respect, and I don’t really feel unhealthy about it, why ought to I? I’ve embraced who I’m and the best way I look. So, there may be nothing to really feel unhealthy about in any respect. I reasonably really feel particular about it.”

Function fashions

“I’m impressed by one of many hairiest women within the World – Harnaam Kaur. She holds the Guinness E book of World Information because the youngest lady on this planet to have full beards at 24 years previous. I’m impressed by her interviews, discuss exhibits, and her life-style. She additionally impressed me to be pleased with myself. Additionally, I like the favored Nollywood veteran actress, Persistence Ozokwor is one other of my position fashions. I simply love her a lot.

Recommendation to girls with vanity points

“For ladies feeling low self-worth due to how they appear, I’ll solely inform them to be daring and pleased with themselves. As a result of while you really feel optimistic about your self, you may be higher and gained’t be low-cost for individuals. Be your self, and be pleased with who you’re. Check out the lifetime of Aki and PawPaw (common Nollywood actors- Chinedu Ikedieze and Osita Iheme), and see how they made it. They began from someplace, however now they’re very well-known.

“At a time, I was very afraid of my future. I had very low esteem. However I thank God now I’ve grow to be extra brave, and accepted who I’m. I don’t give in to individuals’s calls for or expectations that don’t tally with mine. You’ll solely dwell as soon as, so attempt to discover your skills and dwell your life to the fullest. So, as a girl, be good, and all the time attempt to make good and clever selections so that you just don’t look low-cost.”

Supply: Solar Information

 

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